Weekend #3
Tuesday, February 21, 2012 at 9:14AM
Robin
The weekend was quite busy and I had a pretty good day teaching on Monday.
Friday was pretty low-key after our busy day on Thursday and our cooking lesson that ran fairly late. I stayed at home and caught up on some American television for most of the day. It’s amazing how nice it is to hear an American voice after solely foreign tongues for a few weeks.
Speaking of…later on Friday I walked a couple kilometers to meet up with two other language tutors in the area. Right now there are several of us in the Montecosaro/Civitanova area – so far all female and all American – and I just got another email today from a girl who arrived last week. I don’t think any of us realized how nice it is to speak our native language without having to slow down, pick simpler words, or translate into Italian until we got there and met.
The flag hangs from the school building I teach at in Civitanova AltaUsually I’m not too quick to pick up friends, but the three of us really hit it off and met up again last night. Somehow I managed to get crammed into the back of a Smart car (yes, they have “backs”) for a rather wild ride around the area trying to find a restaurant for dinner. We were largely unsuccessful, and an unexpected encounter with railroad tracks has left me with bruises on my butt and the top of my head, but it was a lot of fun to spend time with people who are culturally similar and speak the same language.
We’ve begun planning a trip to Florence for two weeks from now and I’m really looking forward to returning. Neither of them has ever been to Italy before – and in fact for one of them it’s her first time leaving the United States – so I’ve been trying to put together a tentative itinerary that hits all the best spots in our short time period. It looks like we can take a non-stop bus to Florence right from Civitanova Marche, and my host family has very graciously offered to drop us off and pick us up.
After meeting up with the girls on Friday night I hurriedly walked to the minimercado and then home to make dinner for my host family. They have a pretty hectic Friday night most weeks, so I offered to prepare a meal. They asked for “American” food, though in all honesty I’m never really sure what that means. I thought about making hamburgers, but instead made what has now probably become my “signature dish.” I seared some beautiful filet mignon until it was medium rare, made some creamy mashed potatoes loaded with butter (something they never use for cooking in Italy, apparently) and some braised spinach with pancetta affumicata (the closest thing they seem to have to American-style bacon) and onion. I topped the steaks with a brandy-cream-mushroom sauce that everyone loved. In fact, the veggie-phobic kids even enjoyed the meal. Chiara even tried and LIKED, the spinach and mushrooms. Her parents looked like they were going to go into apoplexy.
On Saturday morning we went into Civitanova to see the great big market they have every Saturday. I had expected a decent size gathering, but not the several city blocks full of everything you could possibly imagine. We picked up some deliciously spicy salume, some little sausage-y things that are delectably salty and savory, I bought a beautiful jar of regional honey, and I fell in love with Italian citrus. I haven’t yet found grapefruit – which are by far my favorite citrus – but they have these beautiful Sicilian oranges (arance rosso) and these Mandarino Italiano that are positively divine. I got some of both plus a few clementines and I was happy as a clam. I also tried porchetta, which is essentially the Italian pork version of a Turducken. It’s all sorts of cuts of pig, herbs, and fennel all wrapped in pork skin and slow-roasted. It is extremely salty, amazing paired with some crusty Italian bread, and even better washed down with an ice cold beer.



We made a quick stop to check with a local mozzarella-making joint if we could pop in next Saturday morni
ng to watch them make mozzarella (uhmm…yes, please!), and then went to pick Chiara up from school (yes, some Italian children go to school on Saturdays. You feel bad for them until you realize they only go to school from 8am-1pm every day). While we were waiting the last few minutes for Chiara to get out of school we walked around Civitanova Alta to take pictures.
Our next stop was the Grotte di Frasassi, a spectacular series of caves filled with the most breathtaking stalactites and stalagmites. Usually I would freak out at the idea of going into a cave, but these were so enormous inside it felt more like a cathedral. I was pretty aggravated that they forbade photos – I could have gotten some amazing shots – but was calmed by just how amazing the cave formations were. I was again quickly irritated by the extremely rude and loud Japanese tourists on our tour, who expressly disobeyed the no-photo rule and used flash photography all over the cave, even though the tour guide yelled at them repeatedly to stop.
I couldn’t believe how incredibly rude and disrespectful they were. Sure, I think the no-photo rule is dumb – but it’s there because moron tourists use flash photography and ruin natural wonders. Anyone with half a brain would know not to use a flash in an environment like that, but because of stupid people who do, we have rules that prevent responsible people from taking pictures. And, even if I think it’s dumb, I abide by the rules. I was horrified at the completely boorish behavior the entire group displayed.
All that aside, the caves were so amazing it’s hard to explain. The pictures I’ve found on the internet do nothing to fully depict how grand and impressive the stalagmites are. Thinking of how they’ve been built up over millions of years is truly humbling.
Makes you realize just how small and temporary a human life is in the grand scheme of things. The caves were discovered by climbers from Ancona in the 1970s. They were walking on a still day and noticed some brush moving about in the mountains outside Fabbriano. When they very carefully lowered themselves into the giant caverns, they found these amazing formations. Talk about the find of a lifetime.
On our way back to Montecosaro we stopped in Porto Recanati for some tasty pizza. It’s amazing to me how late Italians eat. When we got there at 8pm the place was empty, by the time we left at 10:30 or so there wasn’t an empty seat in the house. Mind-blowing. My American tummy still wants to eat at 6pm.
On Sunday we went to Fabio’s parents house out in the countryside. Oh. My. Goodness. Where they live is so beautiful I can’t even put into words. They have a very modest home, but they have land. Olive trees, grapes, animals, gardens. It’s so amazing. I can't believe I forgot my camera. We had lunch there and we drank wine they made from their grapes, ate food cooked in olive oil from their olives, ate tortellini cooked in tomato sauce grown from their tomatoes, ate beef from a cow they raised and slaughtered – it was pure bliss. I tried explaining to them how amazing and special it was, but I’m not sure they understood how much I really enjoyed it. Oh! And we also drank port, or “vino cotto” made by Fabio’s uncle. Fabio’s mother wanted to make limoncinni (a sweet for Carnevale), but didn’t because the recent ice and snow has ruined their lemon tree.
It’s really so sad seeing what the weather has done to this area. Their lemon tree was more than 50 years old – now it’s dead. They’ve lost olive trees and grapes. A neighbor’s barn roof caved in – and that doesn’t even break the surface of what’s happened to this region. Climate change is going to be getting even more difficult to cope with as the years go by. Very sad.
While I was at Fabio’s parents house I got to look at his parents wedding album. It was like watching a classic, black-and-white Hollywood movie. It was so beautiful. They both looked like movie stars. Seeing such a beautiful event captured in such a stunning way was very moving. I felt honored that they would share such a special time with me. After everything Fabio’s father departed to play cards with his friends down the street, something he does every Sunday – and probably because by about that time all the kids are running around screaming like banshees. I don’t blame him for leaving! He made sure I was coming to Sunday lunch next week and even invited me to participate in slaughtering a cow next month. I readily accepted. I am definitely starting to feel like part of the family. The other language tutors seemed a little surprised that I accepted the invitation to help with the slaughter – and I’m sure many people may feel the same way – but I am of the firm belief that if you are going to eat meat, you had better be prepared to kill the animal yourself. I am interested in the process involved and will respect it as a learning experience.
After dinner we went into Civitanova to the supermercado so that I could buy a new blowdryer and brush. I forgot my round brush and my blowdryer reset itself - and will now not turn on because the power isn't the same as in the US. I'm sure it will work when I get back to the US, but not now. And I'm definitely not going until May without a blowdryer. While we were there Fabio bought a 5-liter jug of Rosso Piceno – a man after my own heart.
Monday was pretty quiet. I went to school, taught my classes, and came home. I’m having difficulties with one of the teachers. It’s a long story best left to another post focused on teaching.
Today I’ve been at home planning our trip to Florence week after next. Tonight I’m going to attend a Carnevale masquerade for the kids at the church. I can’t wait to see them running around in their little costumes. Then for tonight I’m making hamburgers for dinner – YUM. Can’t wait to see their reaction to an In-N-Out style burger.
Whatever they think, though, I’ll be in seventh heaven.



























